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Choosing The Rings
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If you have lived together for many years, you may already have rings 
that symbolize your relationship. 
You may want to consider getting new ones just for this upcoming 
special occasion. Many couples engrave the wedding date inside their rings, 
adding a few words that have great meaning for both partners. 
This is a new beginning for both of you; make sure your choice of rings 
reflects that in some way. Since ancient times, the circle of the ring 
has symbolized eternity and 'wholeness' without beginning or end. 
Many say that the third finger on the left hand has a direct line to the heart. 
It's a wonderfully romantic thought the sums up the feelings that couples in 
love have for each other. 
It's important to try to find a reputable jeweller that is a member of one of 
the legitimate Gem Institutes across the country. You will find a wide 
selection either in your favorite jewellry stores, or even online. 
While you're considering those options, don't rule out the idea of a family 
heirloom ring. 
An heirloom ring has history and usually unmatched stone quality. 
It's a beautiful gift from your family and can be reset if it needs to be.
 
Whether you choose simple gold bands, solitaire diamond settings, or 
custom made rings, something old or something new, don't just 'settle' 
on something. Try to choose something that you both like, that you both 
will love to wear all the time, and a design that reflects your personal 
tastes. If you are surprising your partner with a ring, consider a particular 
stone for the ring, one which they really love. 
If they love rubies, and you love sapphires, consider having the same band 
with a different stone set for each of you. 
If you happen to be picking out the ring on your own, and you're not sure 
of their ring size, try to take one of their other rings into the jeweler to have 
the new ring sized so it will fit perfectly.