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With practical wisdom and advice, and personal real-life stories, Arlene Lev prepares gay parents for this endeavor with everything they need to know and everything they can expect while making their own significant and challenging mark on family life in the 21st century
 

Available Now At
HARES & HYENAS
135 Commercial Road, South Yarra 3141 Victoria Australia
Ph: 9824 0110
$39.95
The authors are partners and coparents of children conceived through donor insemination. The book is both their personal experiences as well as practical advice in areas such as the debate over fresh or frozen sperm, ovulation and the menstrual cycle. As many of their own experiences were quite negative the book is written to help validate lesbians and their needs as they go through the process
 
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Lesbian and Gay Parenting
by Arlene Istar Lev
 
Gay and lesbian parents have always existed although it is only in the past few decades that we have openly identified ourselves. All gay and lesbian people struggle with the question of how open and honest to be about our sexual identity, but for gay and lesbian parents the struggle can be profound. On one hand our children can be hurt by people who are uncomfortable with a parent's sexual identity and on the other hand growing up in a home with secrets and shame can also be damaging. Although there is a price to pay being open about being a lesbian or gay family, there is also a price one must pay living a carefully protected, secretive life; gay and lesbian parents need to ask themselves which one is really higher.
 
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Arlene Istar Lev CSW-R, CASAC is a therapist, educator, and activist who specializes in working with the families of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgendered people. She is in private practice, and on the adjunt faculty of SUNY Albany, School of Social Welfare, and Vermont College of Norwich University. She is Sundance's partner, and Shaiyah's momma. She can be reached at Choices Counseling Associates, 321 Washington Avenue, Albany, NY 12208, 518-463-9152 E-mail: istarlev@aol.com
 
Article from Family Is Family Is Family at GLRL Website.....
 
Lesbians and gay men as parents: what the research says
A considerable amount of sociological and psychological research has been conducted over the past 25 years to examine the effect a parent's sexual orientation has on the welfare and development of their children. The findings comparing lesbian and gay parents to heterosexual parents refute common stereotypes and concerns about lesbian and gay parenting.
It has been clearly demonstrated that the sexuality of a child's parents has no connection to the child's moral and cognitive development, well-being or happiness. When comparing children of heterosexual parents to children of lesbians and gay men no significant differences have been found in the social adjustment, social acceptance, or sociability of the children.
Nor has any difference in the children's peer relations such as quality of friendships or popularity been illustrated. In addition, no discernible differences have been found in the children of heterosexual or homosexual parents regarding a child's gender role identification or sexual orientation.
The most important factor in a child's upbringing has been identified as the care and love put into a child's life. Lesbians and gay men display matched capability at loving and caring for their children as their heterosexual counterparts.

For further information see the GLRL report, Meet the Parents.

Research has shown that family processes, not family structures, are determinative of children's well being.
That is, the happiness of the relationship between the adults in the home, and the degree of openness, warmth and communication within the family, not the gender or sexuality of the adults, has the most significant impact on the child.
It is not having a gay and lesbian parent that disadvantages a child; it is the government's discriminatory laws.
 
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